Is the law of attraction then a contributory factor in dating success? YES! Like attracts like, so if you want to get your dream date, you can have it by just letting the energy of the universe flow! Everyone can take advantage of the law of attraction. You too can have that love you always dreamed about; but first, you have to undergo the initial stage… dating!

Using the law of attraction can be beneficial if used sensibly in dating. Here are simple advices on how you can be successful in dating:

1. Write down all that you desire for a date. A perfect date can be visualized ahead of time. Give the exact details of what you look forward and be ready to meet him/her. Is he a handsome man who has his own business? Is she an attractive lady in the fashion world? It is said that writing down details and visualizing the invisible takes you to an 80% assurance of achieving what you want. Knowing what you want assures and shows that you are working toward that goal.

2. Check on what you feel and take a step further. Your emotions won’t lie to you. If you are fickle minded, chances are the universe won’t grant what you wished for because it is imprecise. Deal with specifics, feel what you really want.

3. Do not doubt! Most people have fears of being rejected. So if the thoughts running in your mind is “I don’t want rejection”, the law of attraction can perceive it as, “I want to be rejected.” So be positive and assume that you have already gained it! By law of attraction, you can have all that you want, ALL! So be prepared!

4. Turn your shyness into assertiveness. Think and act as if you already are comfortable with your date but be cautious not to overreact! As a general rule, be yourself; no more, no less! Feel good about yourself and always think that you are attractive.

5. Try to mirror the attitudes and behaviors of the person you’re trying to convince, or try to find common ground. Notice that you have similarities right? This can be beneficial to you; you can easily be acquainted to him/her by sharing the same likes and dislikes. If you both love watching movies, then an interesting film can be a start of a nice conversation. Remember, like attracts like.

6. Although it’s obvious the universe is on your side, you don’t want to appear horrible on your date. Looks are also important. Your appearance is one sure source of attraction. So dressed up, look nice and spray your favorite perfume.

7. Enjoy life and do the things you always wanted. Why not spend your time partying, strolling or traveling? Do what you want to do and don’t use your spare time for useless activities such as oversleeping and locked up inside your room.

Applying the law of attraction to draw your dream love to you is really simple. Changing your thoughts and being an optimist attracts positive vibrations. Knowing that the law of attraction will transform your imaginations to reality is a sure confidence booster that can be a successful tool in dating. ]]> http://e-booksite.net/blog/body-mind-spirit/using-law-the-of-attraction-to-have-your-dream-date/feed/ 0 http://e-booksite.net/blog/body-mind-spirit/problems-people-have-with-the-law-of-attraction/ http://e-booksite.net/blog/body-mind-spirit/problems-people-have-with-the-law-of-attraction/#comments Mon, 22 Jun 2009 09:54:16 +0000 harry http://e-booksite.net/blog/?p=144 The Law of Attraction seems so easy for some.  Others try and try and have no success.  They wonder why this should be true.  There are some very good reasons why people have problems using the Law of Attraction.

The most obvious answer to the question of why it isn’t working is that you might be expecting to instantaneously have what you ask for.  You have to realize that you are simply sending out positive energy surrounding a subject.  You must trust Law of Attraction to send it back to you in its time.

When trying to use the Law of Attraction, you may find that you are always tapping your foot and asking when it’s going to happen for you.  If you do, it may mean that you are not really coming into it believing in anything.  You are just testing the waters and not willing to commit to anything.

You might also be expecting the answer to your demands to come by a certain method.  For example, you might ask for money.  You are hoping someone will just give it to you.  This may be your idea of the Law of Attraction.  However, if you are alert to the universe around you, you may come across another means.

An idea might come to you that would bring you the money you desire.  It might involve some work, but the end result would be the same.  If your energy is positive, you will look upon this circumstance with gratitude and joy.  By the Law of Attraction, this can only multiply the good in your life.

Another mistake people make in using the Law of Attraction is to put too much emphasis on the evidence they see.  When they see things that seem to prove that the Law of Attraction is not working, they quit believing.  They get frustrated and become a mass of negative vibrations.  This will bring more of the same.

The truth is that if they really understand the Law of Attraction and the science behind it, external evidence will have little effect on them.  This is because they will have total belief and trust that the Law of Attraction has been working all along.  What is happening in the beginning is only a manifestation of earlier bad energy.

Their new positive, focused thoughts, without doubt, will come to fruition in the future.  This is the outlook of a person who has mastered the use of the Law of Attraction.  That person will believe in the outcome because he/she believes in the process.

A person might also have problems fully using the Law of Attraction because their past outlook has been so limited.  They have strong emotions about things they consider too hard to conquer or too much or too big to have.

When these emotions come up, it changes the energy you are sending out.  Lecturers and writers of the Law of Attraction have developed ways to release such emotions.  These methods allow the person to fully use the Law of Attraction.

If you properly use the Law of Attraction, you will have what you want.  It is and isn’t easy.  You only need to change the way you think and feel about things.  If you can come to understand the Law of Attraction fully, you can make it work for you. ]]> http://e-booksite.net/blog/body-mind-spirit/problems-people-have-with-the-law-of-attraction/feed/ 0